Mother of the Bride:
What Are You Going to Wear When She Says I Do?
Well now that you have taken time to get used to the fact your "little girl" is getting married, now it is time to consider what you are going to wear on her big day By the way, the most important thing do remember when you are choosing your dress it's her day to be in the spotlight. Your daughter choices about her wedding day set the tone for the way her guests perceive her and her groom. The best way to support her on her wedding day is to follow her lead when you decide on your dress for her special day.
The starting point for making your decision is to ask your daughter if she has any preferences as to the style, color or length of the dress (or she might be fine with you wearing a pantsuit). If she does not give a preference, consider what kind of wedding she is having. If she is getting married on the beach you are going to wear something less formal than if she is having an evening wedding in a candlelit cathedral. You can also take cues from the dress she chooses as to whether to choose a formal gown or just a pretty tea length dress.
Another thing to consider is what color is your dress going to be. Traditionally the mothers of the bride and groom stay away from white and ivory (so not to compete with the bride), black (so it does not look like you are mourning the marriage) and bold colors like red so it does not appear as if you are competing with your daughter for attention. You will find it helpful to see what color and style of dress your daughter has chosen for her bridesmaids to wear. You want to choose a dress which complements their gowns. Another tradition is to consult with the mother of the groom to coordinate colors and style.
Whatever dress you chose, take time to remember your "little girl" is now an adult. Respect the decisions she makes and the two of you will be on a path to a lifelong relationship of trust and understanding.
